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Nonviolent Communication

Roberta Allen

The woman who treated me badly...

The woman who treated me badly after her bout with breast cancer, who is trying to get back in my good graces by giving two dachshund bookends to the dachshund-owning ex-girlfriend of the man I am seeing, a woman the cancer survivor erroneously assumes is my close buddy because she is close to her husband’s ex-girlfriend, is the same woman whose evil-looking elfin-like husband said, giggling, and in his usual flirtatious manner, at the same party where another woman with the same first name as mine talked to me about nonviolent communication, that all his life he has been good at getting other people to do his bidding while pointing at his wife who had explained to me, moments earlier, smiling, that since she is back on Lexipro, her antidepressant, she doesn’t mind managing her husband’s b & b though, of course, she would rather write like her sister who has published several novels between three bouts of breast cancer and caring for their aging mother who, she said, still smiling, will probably outlive them all.

 

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Daniel Mehari says on October 20th, 2008 at 4:03 pm:

Well done. An older Scottish woman, a nurse and counsellor, told me that breast cancer was caused metaphorically by loved ones sucking the nurturing out of a woman. I have continuously found this to be a fairly valid metaphore. As the the husband, the applicable metaphore would be the bad weed gets the light. But I have seen signed that bad weeds do eventually run into problems with their adopted survival stratefies and they can be rather large problems. But best to pull the weeds while they are small.